Here I want to talk about relations which are other than Love.
A human being is a social animal, as we all need to talk with anyone. when we start talking with someone either we start hating or start loving him/her & sometimes no feelings generate in us for that person. That depends on our choice plus behaviour of a person who is front of us.
When a boy meets other boy & have feelings for him, he cares for him, always teases him that is ok, the same thing applicable when a girl have her bestie & she cares for her, share everything with her that is also ok. But when a boy cares for girl or girl cares for boy why always we pretend that something is going on between then.
I had heard one dialogue in an old movie that one boy and one girl never can be a best friend. Why they can not be best friends?? Why they can not care each other when they are only friends and not in the relationship?? Why they can not go to outing and post pics with each other?? Is there any qualification needed to do these all thing that you have to be in a relationship. If your answer is yes then congrats you are getting an award of most narrow-minded person.
when one boy does something for another boy we don't call him gay, when a girl is getting mad while she meets another girl we don't call her lesbian then why one girl and one boy is cheering up & we just put a tag on them that they must be in the relationship.
the line I mostly listen when I ask anyone something about any boy their reaction will be that what relation is between you & that boy, why you care this much. So my clear and cut answer for them that I am not narrow-minded like you, I will care for everyone who is in my life whether boy or girl. I just care for all that doesn't mean I am in love with that person.
So just change your attitude that girl and boy always there is lust. it may friendship, care, or attraction also. but not all time love happens in every girl and boy relation.
sometimes it happens that we keep talking with the person & start getting fall in love with him or her, & when he/she ignores you or say something you don't like you got hurt. Here I think feelings are a just game of mind. If we force our mind in that direction that I love him/her and I want him/her, you think your love is increasing and actually, you are getting mad.
remember one thing in life that we can love anyone, who stay with us for one month we start loving them or sometimes start hating them. One month is enough to love someone or to forget someone. Focus on your career, Do good from your side & rest leave on the time.
A human being is a social animal, as we all need to talk with anyone. when we start talking with someone either we start hating or start loving him/her & sometimes no feelings generate in us for that person. That depends on our choice plus behaviour of a person who is front of us.
When a boy meets other boy & have feelings for him, he cares for him, always teases him that is ok, the same thing applicable when a girl have her bestie & she cares for her, share everything with her that is also ok. But when a boy cares for girl or girl cares for boy why always we pretend that something is going on between then.
I had heard one dialogue in an old movie that one boy and one girl never can be a best friend. Why they can not be best friends?? Why they can not care each other when they are only friends and not in the relationship?? Why they can not go to outing and post pics with each other?? Is there any qualification needed to do these all thing that you have to be in a relationship. If your answer is yes then congrats you are getting an award of most narrow-minded person.
when one boy does something for another boy we don't call him gay, when a girl is getting mad while she meets another girl we don't call her lesbian then why one girl and one boy is cheering up & we just put a tag on them that they must be in the relationship.
the line I mostly listen when I ask anyone something about any boy their reaction will be that what relation is between you & that boy, why you care this much. So my clear and cut answer for them that I am not narrow-minded like you, I will care for everyone who is in my life whether boy or girl. I just care for all that doesn't mean I am in love with that person.
So just change your attitude that girl and boy always there is lust. it may friendship, care, or attraction also. but not all time love happens in every girl and boy relation.
sometimes it happens that we keep talking with the person & start getting fall in love with him or her, & when he/she ignores you or say something you don't like you got hurt. Here I think feelings are a just game of mind. If we force our mind in that direction that I love him/her and I want him/her, you think your love is increasing and actually, you are getting mad.
remember one thing in life that we can love anyone, who stay with us for one month we start loving them or sometimes start hating them. One month is enough to love someone or to forget someone. Focus on your career, Do good from your side & rest leave on the time.
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